Rewiring the Brain's Threat Response to Criticism: A Guide for the Perfectionist
Your manager mentioned one small thing to adjust in an otherwise glowing performance review, and by the time…
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Your manager mentioned one small thing to adjust in an otherwise glowing performance review, and by the time…
Your team presented a plan you'd championed for months, and halfway through the meeting, new data came in tha…
You made it through the exciting first month of the new job, the launch, the learning curve, the novelty of a…
You look around and everybody else appears to have arrived sooner. Sooner to confidence. Sooner to their voca…
You can explain yourself brilliantly. You know the pattern, the childhood context, the attachment style, the…
You can be objectively attractive, accomplished, interesting, or respected and still carry a body that rememb…
You can handle effort, pressure, and responsibility better than most people. The thing that destroys you is w…
Most people want to be seen as good. Far fewer want to admit they also contain calculation, strategic thinkin…
You look like an adult. You do enough adult things. You pay, plan, answer, coordinate, carry, and show up. Bu…
At first cynicism may have felt intelligent. Protective. Mature. You were no longer naive. You saw motives mo…
You know, logically, that one typo will not ruin your life. One awkward phrase will not end your career. One…
You tell yourself you are just driven. Maybe you are. But sometimes the drive is doing more than helping you…