Emotional Invalidation: Why Some People Literally Cannot Hear Your Pain
You are hurting. You have gathered the courage to share your pain with someone you trust—a parent, a partner,…
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You are hurting. You have gathered the courage to share your pain with someone you trust—a parent, a partner,…
You are the masker. The masking is the source of the chronic performance of the normal, the chronic suppressi…
You are the emotionally tough. The toughness is the source of the chronic resilience, the chronic composure,…
You are the obsessive thinker. The thinking is the source of the chronic analysis, the chronic rumination, th…
You are the high-achiever with the imposter syndrome. The achievement is the source of the chronic external s…
You are the imposter syndrome sufferer. The imposter syndrome is the source of the chronic self-doubt, the ch…
You are the inner critic. The inner critic is the source of the chronic self-criticism, the chronic self-doub…
You understand exactly why you feel this way. Childhood pattern. Attachment trigger. Cognitive distortion. Fa…
You are about to speak, publish, lead, perform, or be evaluated. Your thoughts say, what if they find out? Bu…
You wake up heavy, stiff, foggy, and already annoyed by change. A small plan shift feels unbearable. A new id…
You are not your best self at 4:17 p.m. You know this. The email that would have been mildly annoying at 10 a…
You are the highly analytical mind. The analysis is the source of the chronic pattern recognition, the chroni…