The Tyranny of 'Good Vibes Only': Why Toxic Positivity Is Harming Your Mental Health
I was at a dinner party two years ago when someone asked me how I was doing. I gave the honest answer: not gr…
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I was at a dinner party two years ago when someone asked me how I was doing. I gave the honest answer: not gr…
I realized I was the backup friend on a Thursday evening. My phone buzzed at 6:42 PM. It was someone I consid…
The cursor blinks. That's all it does. Blink, blink, blink. I've been sitting here for twenty minutes. I've c…
I turned down a party invitation last weekend and felt a wave of relief so physical it surprised me. Shoulder…
I was trying to explain something to my brother last month. Something about work. About why a particular situ…
I took a photo of my coffee last Tuesday. Not because the coffee was remarkable. Because the morning light wa…
You know that oddly flattering moment when you read something about yourself and think, Yes. That is exactly…
You read a result, and something in you relaxes. Oh. So that’s why I am like this. Maybe the label helps you…
You know the feeling. Your chest tightens. Your mind starts making arguments for delay. There is a conversati…
You can almost feel the cultural pressure to sound certain all the time. Fast opinions. Instant hot takes. Co…
You can say thank you and still live in a mind that is constantly scanning for what is missing. You can keep…
You tell yourself you are just being wise. Just thinking ahead. Just avoiding unnecessary risk. And to be fai…